Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Where I Stand.


https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/the-cost-and-blessings-of-discipleship?lang=eng

I've been thinking about the quote above quite a bit lately.  I've spent many hours thinking, praying, reading, studying, writing, and repeating over the past few weeks.  As much as I wish there weren't, there are several arguments flying around the internet about a group named Ordain Women, their recently excommunicated leader, and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS).  I do not wish to be a part of the arguments--I've seen a lot of nastiness on both sides, and it is not right.  For people who profess to follow Jesus Christ, I would expect better.  But I do feel it is important for those who know me to know where I stand on this.

I do not support the groups that demand for the ordination of women in the LDS church.  I do not hate them either.  I would hope we can all reach out with love and compassion to those with whom we disagree.  They are mostly people who have sincere questions and concerns.  I can understand and sympathize with that.  I do disagree, however, with both their cause and their methods.  Their leader, Kate Kelly, was recently excommunicated from the LDS Church, not because she had questions (those are welcomed and encouraged in the Church), but because of her acts of protest and defiance.  The Church recently published this statement in response to the media firestorm that ensued.

I fully support the leaders of our Church.  It is a personal decision to do so, and one that was made as I came to know for myself that God still speaks today through a living prophet--a core tenant of the LDS faith.

I also believe that it is not the doctrine of the LDS Church to belittle women.  In fact, my experience and study shows that the Church does quite the opposite.  I feel empowered and ennobled in a great cause as a woman.  Women are valued and respected here.  I do not dispute that other women may have had different experiences than I, but I do believe that these instances are the result of human error, not that of the doctrine of the Church.

I am grateful to be a woman in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  I am grateful for the things that I know.  I am grateful to have an understanding of who I am and how I fit into God's plan to bless all of His children.  I don't know everything, but I know enough.  I know enough to feel inspired, empowered, and happy.



***I've written several long drafts of this post, and decided to eliminate the majority of my points and explanations.  I felt they were not necessary for the intent of this post.  However, I'd be happy to have discussion with anyone who has questions or would like to further understand.  I don't wish to engage in debates, but will happily engage in productive discussion.  Thank you.***

4 comments:

  1. Michelle, I appreciate what I felt as I read this. "I know enough to feel inspired, empowered, and happy" is such a good indicator for understanding so many things. I love how you put it. I also love the opening quote you used by Elder Holland. It's true.

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  2. Thank you for taking the time to articulate your beliefs. I really believe that if divine doctrine was truly understood, no one could argue the genius and simplicity of our Heavenly Father's plan of happiness for his beloved sons and daughters.

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  3. Beautifully and simply worded, Michelle. Thanks for posting.

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  4. I have considered posting about this subject and could never really come up with anything that fit everything that I thought and felt on the subject. You did! Thanks!

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